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Fluffy Here: An Overdue Report

by Beverley
May 18th, 2012

Sitting here I can really keep an eye on Mom

Fluffy here with overdue report,….

Things have been pretty hectic the past ten days. So much confusion with all the nurses coming and going. I follow Mommy all around our house and take care of her. But she was downstairs walking few days ago and she decided to try to do steps out front. Susie and Julie were with her. But suddenly her bad leg buckled under her and she fell!

Rennie isn't much help

We sure didn’t need that after what we’ve been thru! Susie and Julie couldn’t get her up into the wheelchair. But luckily a really nice young man working in Bldg 5 came. He put his arms around under Mom’s arms and clasped them in front of her and he told her to clasp hers on top of his and in one swift movement he had her straight up and into her wheel chair. They decided he must have had paramedic training. He really rescued Mom. Then last night Mommy went to find something In her closet and she left her walker at the door. Next thing she was calling for Susie. She fell again. We are really watching her now. And the doctor is getting strict. She’s been thru so much we are forbidden to upset her. So Rennie and I have to be friends for her sake. She was however very upset her friend Nonie De Limur died.

Jiko and Martin Blakeway were home from Japan for 3 days before they left for Geneva. They came to see us and brought Mommy the poached pears Jiko makes that Mommy loves. I'm checking it out.

Ladys who spends nights with us really makes her laugh. She has a heavy accent from Ecuador and talks very fast. I don’t understand her sometimes but Mommy and aunt Susie do.

Today we got a coffee maker and we had a Coffee Party. Mommy said Ecuadorian way of making coffee is like she gets in Paris. And we had whole wheat English muffins and scrambled eggs. Bob and Carol Jackson bring us fresh eggs every week from their fancy chickens. I can’t wait to tell Babji Mom ate a whole big breakfast. All her doctors have been worried because she wouldn’t eat. But Ladys makes it fun.

Mommy says this blue coral looks like mountains she saw in Yunnan. Doesn't look like mountains to me!

Well guess that’s our news for now.

Most important thing is doctors have found pills that control Mom’s horrendous pain. And she is laughing again.

Love,
Fluffy

Guess I won't sample the apples after all. I don't like the look in his eyes.

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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Fluffy Here: Recovery Progress Report!

by Beverley
May 4th, 2012

Mommy has strange things in this house. Rennie says this is something called a dragon I'm checking out.

Sorry I’ve been out of touch but I’ve had my hands full. We came home a week and half ago and the house has been really crazy. Different nurses three times a day & Rennie barking madly at all of them especially the 11:pm shift. Aunt Susie manages to stay calm & get everything organized. She’s the greatest.

Aunt Susie was holding me up to make friends with Rennie Nurse Juliette was holding Rennie

Uncle Johnny came to visit us & I flew on to is head. He was a good sport. Aunt Susie & Mommy couldn't stop laughing.

We had one really bad night last week. At 4:30 in morning all these big firemen came & took Mommy back to Cottage Hospital. I rode in the ambulance. Rennie had to stay home. She was really jealous I got to go. We came home the next morning.

Mommy has really hurt a lot. She hasn’t been any fun. Thank goodness Aunt Susie is here all the time. Then today my pal Babji came to see us. That’s Dr. Babji Mesipam. He really scolded Mommy. He told her she could keep lying in bed hurting letting the nurses do everything for her or she could get up & force herself to walk & do things for herself no matter how much she hurts & get strong & well.

Well he really knew how to get to Mom. After he left she dressed herself. She uses something like a fishing pole with a giant tweezers on the end to reach her slacks & put them on. What a production. Rennie & I laughed ourselves silly watching her.

Rennie is no help at all! And she's so long she takes up most of Mommy's bed.

Then Aunt Susie, nurse Julia & I took her out in the sunshine for a walk. Julia pushed her in the wheelchair & I rode on Mommy’s shoulder. When we got to the level Mommy used her walker & walked a long way looking at all the flowers. Then we rode home. And we all had dinner in the living room instead of in bed. The sun was shining in on us. Mommy’s wheelchair was in a corner where she could look at our pretty Japanese terrace that our friend Mike Flaherty is taking care of for us and all the flowers people have sent in the living room And she was laughing instead of crying from the pain. So it was a really good day finally I’m happy to report.

Well, Pip pip as Uncle Richard Mineards would say. I don’t know what it means but it sounds funny.

Fluffy

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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Fluffy Here: We’re Home!

by Beverley
April 22nd, 2012

Wow have I been in trouble since you last heard from me. Big trouble!  But I got bored with all the hospitals. First thing I did was land on Mom’s scrambled eggs when Ken brought her breakfast in and I refused to get off them. Ken is an old friend of ours. He was postmaster of our Montecito post office for years.  He brought breakfast every day cause he is something called a volunteer.  Seventeen years he’s been a volunteer at Rehab. Pretty boring if you ask me. That’s why I jumped in the eggs.

This is our friend Ken. Everyone knows him from the Montecito Post Office.

I was a big help to Mommy in the gym however. I sat in front of her on the arm rower and kept saying “faster faster faster!!!” But I liked the barbells best. I had my own little pink one.

Faster Mommy. Faster!

No Fluffy you cannot take your little pink barbell home with us. Read the sign.

Then they told us we were going home. Aunt Susie got us packed up so fast. Everyone came to say goodbye to me. I liked all the attention. But when we got home no one paid any attention to me. Everyone was fussing over Mommy. Nurses coming and going. Aunt Susie making labeled containers of pills and charts.  A physical therapist making Mom walk. Friends bringing food. Flowers everywhere But no one paid any attention to me.

Scruffy visits the patients every day.

All the nurses came to say goodbye to me. Here's Heather kissing me goodbye.

Nick was a really cool guy. He helped Mom so much when she hurt the worst.

Mommy really liked Barbara Hill especially after she found out Barbara got into China in 1973, two years before Mommy.

So I hid. All night and all the next day and the next night. Mommy was in tears. Aunt Susie went all through her car and all the bags again and again. I finally decided they’d learned to appreciate me.  So the second night real late I flew on to the pillow next to Mommy and when she woke up she saw me & she was so happy. And Aunt Susie was so happy. The nurses were happy. And now everyone is paying attention to me again!

Everyone was so happy to have me back they are giving me anything I want.

No one has figured out where I hid when I was lost.

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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Fluffy Here!

by Beverley
April 14th, 2012
Dr Richard Kahmann

Dr. Richard Kahmann

Met doctor who operated on mommy. Dr. Richard Kahmann. He’s a cool guy. He flies just like me. Well he flies a plane & I’ve got my own wings. Mom likes him cause she thinks he did a good job but mainly because he was interested in the little bound feet she’s always talking about. Dr. Babji Mesipam comes too. Babji & I are old pals. He’s our regular doctor. And so many nice nurses who are always smiling are helping mom not hurt so much.

I hope she doesn’t get spoiled & expect that kind of service from me ’cause I’ll be on my own for awhile. Rennie won’t be allowed home for awhile because shes too heavy. She weighs 12 pounds & I’m light as a feather. Ha ha ha!

Now we’re at another hospital called Rehab. One thing I’ve noticed in all of them they talk so much about the bathroom. Would you believe in one place they rolled the bathroom right up to Mommy’s bed. I don’t understand it. I just go wherever I happen to be standing like Rennie does!

Mommy had a cool roommate first few days in the Rehab Hospital. Her name was Barbara Gordon. The two of them giggled over everything. Stuff I didn’t think was funny. Even when they were moaning for pain medicine. I liked Barbara’s husband Collin too. He talked like Barbara. They were from England. I landed on Collin’s head one night & he just laughed. Then yesterday they went home and we got what I thought was a woman but Mom called her a nightmare. She was really loud & rude to all my nice friends here who take such good care of Mommy & that made both of us mad. THEN she snores all night. Someone said like a volcano erupting.

Well all my friends here went to work on it today & we’ve got a cozy little nest of our own. Aunt Susie (Mommy calls her St Suzie) got us all moved while we were in the gym doing weird things. Then Linda came with our mail & stuff & we all had lunch together. Aunt Susie brings her own every day. She sort of lives with us now & Uncle Johnny & J J & Ayers say its okay cause they want Mommy to get well.

Wonder if there’s any Easter candy left in here?

Fluffy

Ugh!!! It's bitter little pills.

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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I Got More Than I Asked For!

by Beverley
April 5th, 2012

In casual conversation I commented, “Everyone seems to have had a tour of Santa Barbara’s fabulous new Cottage Hospital except me.”

Well I got it!!! More than I asked for.

It wasn't the regular tour I expected

It wasn't the regular tour I expected

There are small sitting/dining areas off each bedroom. This is my view from there. Even a stream flowing by beneath my window

There are small sitting/dining areas off each bedroom. This is my view from there. Even a stream flowing by beneath my window

There are all the hospitally things that could be needed

There are all the hospitally things that could be needed

I'm not being deprived of getting my daily NCSI. A huge screen across from my bed

I'm not being deprived of getting my daily NCSI. A huge screen across from my bed

Food is excellent. Vegetables nice & crispy. However you can't get your filet cooked rare.

Food is excellent. Vegetables nice & crispy. However you can't get your filet cooked rare.

J. J. Mitchell photographed a small Farmers Market for me in the garden outside my window

J. J. Mitchell photographed a small Farmers Market for me in the garden outside my window

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These long halls were filled with more devoted friends than I can name coming & going. I cannot express my gratitude.

Every time I open my eyes I find a dear caring friend sitting there. Patty de Gramont was holding all this beautiful springtime in her arms when I opened my eyes to find her.

Patty de Gramont came out from behind the mass of my favorite daffodils.

J.J. Mitchell was there guarding his Aunt Bubbly even when his ever faithful mother Susie was in attendance.

Clarisa Ru from San Marino was there on one awakening. And she brought me something very special

Everyone has been so wonderful to me — dear longtime friends, smiling new friends from staff. Unfortunately this isn’t the end of this experience. Today I face several hours surgery and ultimately move on to Rehab where new faces and experiences await.

Susie & J J Mitchell don't leave my side. Expecting to wake up on operating table & see their eyes above masks looking over surgeons shoulders still protecting Aunt Bubbly.

One thing moving with me will be my dear little Fluffy whom Clarisa Ru brought to cheer me up. And he makes me smile indeed.

So until Fluffy and I get back to you…

We send Happy Easter Greetings. And I hope we are back soon.

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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Entertaining Can be Entertaining for the Hosts Too

by Beverley
March 30th, 2012
Beverley Jackson. Party March 2012

I put on a clean starched white shirt and some of the beads I make but I forgot to put on.....................

Searching through the wall of cookbooks for a particular book I came upon a Clarkston Potter book by the late Nan Kempner called R.S.V.P published in 2000. Not having looked at it since 2000 I took it down and perused it with great interest. I met the late Mrs. Kempner on only two occasions. Once when the late Esme Hammond, about whom I blogged recently, and I upon finishing luncheon at Mortimer’s in New York joined Esme’s cousin Gloria Vanderbilt, the late Mrs. Charlie Chaplin and Nan Kempner at their table for dessert. Well, Nan Kempner ate most of my dessert, but I learned later from Esme her fork in your food was not unusual. And it did save me unneeded calories! The other time we met was for a panel discussion on entertaining for a group in Beverly Hills. I can’t remember too much about it. Mrs. David Begleman was one other woman on the panel. I remember her because her Hollywood producer husband was making lots of news at the time. I was there because Dale Kern, then West Coast editor for W Magazine whose territory stretched all the way to Hong Kong, had just done a feature story “Montecito, A Place of Quiet Money” and I’d been mentioned as “primo hostess of Montecito”.

Nan Kempner in Valentino Red

Nan Kempner in a Valentino red dress from her large collection of Valentino gowns

R.S.V.P. is an interesting book with surprisingly good recipes, lovely pictures and covers all types of parties hosted by well known hostesses around the world. There’s a luncheon in Deauville, France hosted by Countess Anne d’Ornano with a sea scallop salad on my list to try. Princess Marie-Chantal of Greece has a grapefruit gazpacho with mint that next August for Santa Barbara Fiesta is going to be a wonderful variation on ever popular gazpacho every time I entertain.

Princess Maria Chantal and Crown Prince Pavlos of Greece

Princess Maria Chantal and Crown Prince Pavlos of Greece on an occasion where she wasn't cooking at home.

GRAPEFRUIT AND MINT GAZPACHO

1 cucumber peeled, seeded, and finely diced
2 tomatoes, cored and finely diced
1/2 cup finely diced celery
1/2 cup finely diced red bell pepper
1 scallion (white and green parts) diced
1-1/2 cups fresh grapefruit juice
2 tablespoons chopped fresh mint
2 tablespoons chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley

Reserve 1 tablespoon each of finely diced cucumber, tomato, celery, bell pepper and scallions from the vegetable mixture.

In a large bowl, combine the grapefruit juice with the remaining vegetables and the mint and parsley. Mix well, cover, and refrigerate for 1 hour to blend the flavors.

Working in batches transfer the chilled soup to the bowls of a food processor and puree until smooth. Divide the soup among 6 soup bowls and garnish with the diced vegetables.

Designer Valentino contributed the recipe for Caprese Cake, a specialty of the island of Capri where I enjoyed it almost daily the month I spent there years ago.

Valentino with some of his legendary red gowns

Valentino with some of his legendary red gowns

CAPRESE CAKE

10 tablespoons (1-1/4 sticks) unsalted butter, plus extra for greasing the pan
Flour for dusting the pan
2-1/2 ounces mini melba toasts
2 tablespoons margarine
5 large eggs
1 /4 cup sugar
1 teaspoon baking powder
pinch of salt
1 cup ground almonds
1 pound bittersweet chocolate, grated, plus more for garnish
Confectioners sugar for garnish

Preheat the over to 350F.
Grease a 10 inch round springform pan with extra butter and dust it with flour. Place the Melba toasts in the bowl of a food processor. Pulse until finely crushed.

In a small saucepan, melt the 10 tablespoons butter and the margarine over low heat. Set Aside.

In a medium mixing bowl beat the eggs and sugar until light and fluffy. Add the crushed toasts, baking powder, salt and almonds and stir to combine. Add the chocolate and the melted butter and margarine and mix together until blended. Pour the cake mixture into the prepared pan and bake for 50 to 55 minutes. A toothpick inserted into the center should come out almost clean. Cool the cake on a wire rack. Invert onto a serving plate and garnish with a sprinkle of confectioners’ sugar and grated chocolate.

There now, if you don’t have a Valentino red evening gown in your closet you can have a slice of his Caprese Cake on your plate.

Well I can talk about fancy dining and cooking but I have to say last week I gave a really fun party for about 30 and the only cooking I did was turn the oven on to 400°F and stick pans in and take them out! It was a very last minute event. About three days before I went to squeeze something into my freezer and there was no room for absolutely anything because it was filled with frozen hors d’oeuvres and homemade dim sum from my last big party.

So I decided — everyone I really like that I hear from via phone, email, letter the next three days gets invited for drinks Sunday night. Now that’s a new way to put together a guest list! And they all came!! There were no bartenders or waiters. No marketing. I had it all from dim sum to champagne. Linda Jackson and my darling granddaughter Haley Carrere passed the bamboo steamers filled with dim sum and platters with hot hors d’eouvres, everyone made/poured their own drinks and everyone had a ball because they all met new people. I think maybe that’s the way I’ll do it from now on.

Incidentally it was so casual I just put on a clean starched white shirt, threw some of the giant beads I make around my neck, clean black trousers and………… I didn’t know until Gerald Incandela sent me a photo from his iPhone camera the next morning I never did put on any shoes. But the barefoot hostess had a great time!

But I forgot to put on shoes!!!

But I forgot to put on shoes!!!

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

Categories My Life
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Ollie Carey was a Grand Old Dame but Wouldn’t Have Wanted to be a Grande Dame

by Beverley
March 25th, 2012
Ollie Carey

This photo of beloved Ollie Carey is one of my favorite photos of all the thousands I have taken in my life.

I certainly moved to Santa Barbara just in time — just in time for some fabulous people who will never be equaled again.  Just in time to see how life was enjoyed in the grand old Montecito mansions fully staffed from butler to chef.  My favorite people were all much older than I.  They’d lived lives that could never be duplicated in today’s messed up world.  They lived life to the fullest but had human compassion.  And they generously took a new young divorcee into their open arms and shared their world and affection with her.  And I truly loved them in return.

At the top of my list is a woman who when I knew her lived in a tiny pink house covered with vines and surrounded by ever blooming hibiscus trees on a big ranch, many thousand acres, in Carpentaria, California.  During an earlier stage of her life she’d lived in the late Rudolph Valentino’s famed mansion Falcon’s Lair.   Vast avocado orchards and lemon groves surrounded the little pink house.  And close by a huge reservoir that saved the many small ranch houses on the property and the fabulous lemon packing plant that had been converted into the chicest home filled with Tamayo paintings and great taste by ranch owner Irma Kellogg when a horrendous forest fire consumed the mountains behind and around it.  There’s another blog coming on that fire as I was at a party at painter Jack Baker’s house and studio on the ranch when the phone call came from the fire department the wildfire had broken the fire line at the mountain ridge and was racing down the hill.  “Get out fast!” was the order.

Bob Mitchum & Jan Sterling signed photo

Dorothy and Bob Mitchum were always at Ollie's birthday parties. And Jan Sterling who lived for many years in London was there whenever she was in USA during the summer.

Irma had it in her legal documents that when the ranch was sold Ollie Carey would have her little pink house the rest of her life for $50 a month.  And that’s where she lived out her life.  And what a life it had been.  When I knew her the world came to her.  I’d drop in and find Richard Widmark or John Wayne or one of her many buddies from the past spread out in a big comfortable chair remembering the past with Ollie. And maybe drinking with her.  Ollie could drink with the best of them and did.  And generally had a cigarette burning. For her birthday each year Senator Barry Goldwater, wife Peggy and the whole family piled into RVs and drove over from Arizona to host Ollie’s birthday party, bringing all the provisions with them.  The party was held in a forest like area on the ranch and everyone was there from the ranch hands to the big Hollywood stars to baseball’s pitching great Sandy Koufax who would come with his in-laws Dick and Jeanne Widmark and wife Anne. Robert Mitchum, John Ireland, Stuart Whitman, Jane Russell, Dame Judith Anderson, and Mel Ferrer and Audrey Hepburn (when she was married to him) were all regulars.

Ollie's 80th birthday with Cappy, Dobe, Jack Baker

Ollie, daughter Cappy, son Dobe and friend Jack Baker at Ollie's 80th birthday party

I got to know Ollie very well when she asked me to help her write her autobiography.  I’d head down to the little pink house, taking lunch with me for the two of us, and we’d work and laugh.  Oh how Ollie could throw back her head and belt out laughter.  It was wonderful  We actually came up with a good book I thought.  But we got turned down several times (what else is new for most authors!) and Ollie said, “To hell with it.”  She had one copy I think she tore up and I had one and it’s somewhere in the masses of papers stored in my garage and I have to find it I promise!

Article on young actress Olive Golden Fuller we all knew as Ollie

A publicity shot of Ollie in one of her early films

Ollie was born in New York City but she headed west to Hollywood at a very young age.  She told me that she was only 17 years old when she started living with the much older cowboy star Harry Carey.  Well, Harry was more than a cowboy star although that’s how he was known.  The son of a New York City judge and president of a sewing machine company, Harry was also a railway superintendent, author, lawyer and playwright.  And he had three years touring with a circus too!  Harry must have been quite a character.  Some of his escapades we had in Ollie’s book!!!!

The Barnett Bros Circus wagon photographed in the 1920s when Harry Carey was working with the circus.

Harry Carey starred in The Last of the Mohicans in 1934

Ollie and Harry lived on a ranch in San Francisquitao Canyon about 35 miles from Los Angeles.  It was the Saugus area where cowboy movies were shot in those days.  The ranch was big, about 1,200 acres, and they had a large group of Navajo Indians who lived and worked on the property and managed large herds of Navajo and Karakul sheep that grazed on the slopes of the mountains.  And they had a trading post store on the property.  Ollie would describe the Navajo religious ceremonies that took place on the ranch.  And speaking of living on the ranch, director John Ford and actor John Wayne lived there too sleeping in sleeping bags out front of the house joined by Ollie and Harry after a fire that started in the pump house destroyed the original wood frame farm house.  With their films shooting in that area it was practical and fun for sure to live with Ollie and Harry!

Ollie Carey    Their trading store in Saugus, CA

Interior of trading store Ollie and Harry had in Saugus, California run by the Navajos who lived and worked on their ranch.

Harry was Ollie’s life.  She talked about Harry who died in 1947 to the day she died at 92 in 1988.  But she herself appeared in more than 50 films.  Her first was The Sorrowful Shore in 1913.  And now that all the people involved are gone I can tell an interesting story that proved how people loved Ollie.  I helped her with her mail etc. while we were working on the book since I was there almost daily.  I did notice that she lived basically on a check from the Motion Picture Home that always came the first of the month.  I would have expected it to come from Screen Actor’s Guild or something but not the Home.  But I never questioned it.  Some years after she had died I discovered a secret about that check and an interesting woman, Alice Irving.  We all knew Alice Irving who was quiet and shy.  She came from the East and had built a very modern home filled with a major contemporary art collection in Montecito.  I first knew her through volunteer work we both did at the Santa Barbara Museum of Art.  Alice Irving (her two names were usually spoken like one word) wore simple cotton dresses and sturdy shoes and gave no sign of the great wealth that was hers.  Well except for special events at the museum she might have a couple of  fantastic emeralds on her fingers perking up those cotton dresses with little collars and cuffs.  That was her idea of dressing up.  But about the secret I learned.  It seems she had given a large sum of money to the Motion Picture Home, part of it a donation to the Home and the remainder to be paid monthly to Olive Carey for the rest of her life with the understanding Ollie must always think it was from royalties for the films she made.  Ollie never suspected.  She really thought it was royalties for her films.  Alice Irving was a great lady of the old school.  Charity was done without notoriety.  It was done quietly from the heart.

Speaking of Ollie’s financial situation, one other envelope came the first of every month from famed film star Richard Widmark from wherever he was in the world.  In it was always a funny card and a hundred dollar bill and a comment like, “You probably need a new bra you old broad!” (Ollie never wore one) or “Bet you’re out of beer!”   And Ollie would throw back her head and roar with laughter and say something like, “I love that guy!”  And that guy and all of us really loved Ollie!

Ollie holding court

Ollie Carey and Mary Steele were always right there at the front table checking guests in for every Santa Barbara Museum of Art opening

Ollie dressed up, no Mu Mu, for some event.

Ollie and Jack Baker, neighbors and best friends, at one of Ollie's birthday parties hosted by Peggy and Barry Goldwater every year


Tribute to Harry Carey with narration by John Wayne & Olive Carey. Music & sung by Clyde Lucas. (bmi) © 2010 & owned by 7th Voyage Productions, Inc.

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

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Leopards Aren’t Just In The Jungle Any More

by Beverley
March 17th, 2012

This beautiful short video of Cartier Jeweler’s new ad brought back many memories for me. As Cartier’s Leopard tore majestically through the snow of St. Petersburg followed by horses pulling a troika I remembered the 40 miles in deep snow driving from St. Petersburg to the Winter Palace and the incredible world of the past we found there.

Tzar Nicholas II and Alexandra dressed for a ball in the Winter Palace

And I remembered a rug for the floor in a pawn shop in Shanghai, China in February 1975. It was a large rug, possibly 15 feet by 15 feet, made entirely of magnificent Snow Leopard pelts. I was both sickened at the thought of those beautiful animals being slain only to be walked on and awed by the beauty of the rug. It was lined in deep red velvet and surrounded by a thick border of the same.

The man running the government pawn shop was anxious to get rid of it but there was no way I could have lived with it even if I could have brought it home on the plane and gotten it through U.S. customs. There were amazing items for sale in the pawn shop. Many left by fleeing Europeans in 1949 with the takeover by the Communist government. One thing I did buy was a beautiful Chinese opera headdress made of blue kingfisher feathers.

The Kingfisher Feather headdress I bought in the pawn shop in Shanghai in February 1975

Not knowing anything about my purchase, I sent a photo and query to Arts of Asia magazine and they answered in a future edition with the photo and comment “Mrs. Jackson was very fortunate to get into the pawn shop. A few short months after her visit a law was passed that no westerners could ever purchase from Chinese pawn shops again.” And they still can’t. This is good however since poor peasants will pawn everything they own to buy seeds to plant in spring, even their winter clothes and blankets, and hope that crops will be good and they will be able to get things back again.

Well the magnificent Leopard in the video has so far taken me back to St. Petersburg and old China and he has taken me to Paris as well. Now to present day Leopard business. Leopard prints once again were shown in so many of the Paris collections last week. Will designers never tire of the design?

Dolce & Gabbana

You could play Tarzan in this Michael Kors dress

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About five years ago I weakened for a Snow Leopard (fake) purse in the window of a famous French designer’s boutique in the lobby of the Bellagio Hotel in Las Vegas. I was ashamed of spending so much on a purse. But considering I’ve carried it for almost five years and it’s still in style I guess I should give up the guilt!

My five year old fake Snow Leopard purse

Fortunately today all these items are made of silk and cotton prints or printed calf skin. In the 1960′s when Leopard coats were all the rage after Jackie Kennedy was photographed wearing one the animals were being slaughtered at a tremendous rate. One furrier admitted in 1967 that as many as eight pelts were needed to make a coat. Fortunately in 1970 U.S. state laws began being passed banning the sale of fur from Leopard, Cheetah, Snow Leopard, Tiger, Jaguar and two small spotted cats (Margay and Ocelot). The U.S. Endangered Species Act of 1973 finally cut off imports by adding the full species of most large and many small spotted cats. And many countries in Europe and elsewhere enacted domestic legislation to cut off the trade it items made of the cat furs. Sadly though illegal killing and trade goes on today in some countries. The use of various parts of the cats for medicinal products is one reason. I had the horrible experience of seeing a blanket spread on the ground in a parking lot where Asian tourists swarmed in late 1970′s in China selling items from endangered species still bleeding — bears paws etc. This prompted me to get involved with World Wildlife and other organizations. But if the demand and money are there the killing will continue. In our grandchildren’s world I am afraid all that will be left of these magnificent Leopards and other great cats will be videos like shown above or animals in cages in a zoo.

Rennie, I told you we weren't going to show that! Why did you drag it out here?

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This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

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I Fell For Sneakers Before Models Were Falling In Stilettos

by Beverley
March 7th, 2012

Since you are still getting daily news about Paris collections Kathleen and I decided to post the advance written Sunday blog for you to ahead of time to read along with all the daily reports from Paris.

Cathy Horyn's review from Paris fashion week in the New York Times last week read in part: "Hussein Chalayan's clothes reflect nearly 20 years of knowledge, innovative cutting, meditations on culture and identity............... Mr. Chalayan is again using reflective fabrics. The silver tone has a fantastic depth and the skinny pants (made of this fabric) looked best with a spare coat and matching silver sneakers."

Even Karl Lagerfeld's top models in his latest Chanel collection presentation were dropping on the runway because of their shoes.

Big news out of the currently occurring Paris fall 2012 ready to wear collection was, Hussein Chalayan showed some of his collection with models wearing not the six inch stilettos heels that have had models falling off the runway but sneakers. Not those weird Alexander McQueen creations that Daphne Guinness and Lady Gaga stumble around in. But sneakers! For older generations, sneakers are glorified tennis shoes! Fashionista‘s important blog reports: “Every editor and fashion industry leader is running around Paris collections wearing sneakers.” Then Gwen Paltrow’s very good blog “GOOP” presented a pair of gold sneakers with information of where to purchase them. Today I received notice from Bergdorf Goodman that Lanvin has come out with a pair of gold sneakers with black patent toes for $725.00!

Daphne Guiness in Alexander McQueen Amadillos

Daphne Guinness appears to be into self-torture when it comes to shoes

Gwen Paltrow was promoting these gold shoes for evening on her blog Goop

Lanvin has just come out with a gold sneaker with patent toe for $725.

Some of the top models have finally said they will not continue to walk the runways in the wild shoes that are currently popular.

And I’m sitting back smiling to myself. In 2001 I was lecturing on Chinese footbinding and my then three year old book Splendid Slippers – A Thousand Years of an Erotic Tradition at San Francisco’s Legion of Honor Museum. The capacity audience was most attentive for my hour plus lecture and kept me there about 40 minutes more answering questions. Naturally this was all very flattering. But my feet hurt!!! I was wearing a fairly sensible pair of vintage Roger Vivier shoes from Paris many years before when the late Mr. Vivier had only one outlet, his area in the Christian Dior shop in Paris. Now the brand name has been sold and I have no idea who is behind the company. He had a heel that was very sensible for that time, I think it was called a French heel. But sensible or not, standing that long in one place — my feet hurt!

Leaving the museum I took a cab straight to the San Francisco branch of Saks Fifth Avenue and staggered into the shoe department. Collapsing into a chair I announced to the nice salesman who presented himself, “I want the most comfortable shoes you have in Saks. I don’t care what they look like.”

Beverley's Icon shoes

Beverley's Icon shoes

More of my Icon shoe collection

More of my Icon shoe collection

“You’re in luck,” he replied. “We’ve just started carrying a new brand called Icon and the first shipment came in this morning. They are made of soft Italian leather and they have no heel.” He brought me the only pair in my size. They were very fine tennis shoes in my estimation, but the price a great deal more than the $35 I was used to paying for my canvas tennis shoes. I started to balk at the price, but meanwhile he slid my hurtin’ feet into the Icons and it was heaven. There is soft padding in the shoe so it’s like walking on foam. That Italian leather they used for the original Icons was almost as soft as glove leather. But I could feel good support. I walked out of the store in them and have been wearing Icons ever since. My friends go from one shoe fad to another and I just buy another pair of Icons when the seasons change and that womanly “I’ve got to have a new pair of shoes” feeling strikes.

My evening sneakers

My evening sneakers

More of my Icons. Didn't realize I had so many!!

More of my Icons. Didn't realize I had so many!!

These aren't Icons. They are Pumas. I just got creative and added crystals to make an evening shoe. I have lots of crystals because I've been spraying and "jeweling" canes for myself since i have to use one after a fall. Something surprising, I've noticed last few days Rennie doesn't stand still near me when I'm working with crystals and Crazy Glue. Could she possibly think I'd stick crystals on her? Now I wonder how I'd do it if...........

Along the way four years ago Stuart Weitzman came out with gold, copper, silver python sneakers (tennis shoes!) So I got those too. And do they come in handy. Three years ago I was in San Francisco for the Asia Museum evening gala celebrating a special exhibition from Shanghai Museum. I took a favorite very fancy antique Chinese robe to wear for the event and I even dug out a pair of silver Vivier pumps to wear again just this once. That was the plan. However the hotel maid had moved a bedside table from where it had been the previous day and late at night I walked right into it and broke a toe. So much for high heel silver pumps. Luckily I had those silver Weitzman sneakers in the suitcase. So I went to the gala looking like an elegant Chinese princess, until you got to the feet clad in silver “tennis shoes”.

Even the dog got into the sneakers act.

Now the rest of the world may be making a big discovery — fancy sneakers/tennis shoes are the new thing. But as the kids say, “Been there, done that” and I’m still doing it and will continue the rest of my life. Life is so much more pleasant ladies when your feet don’t hurt. Toss those red soled Louboutins and Manolas. Get comfy tennis shoes. Sorry, I mean sneakers.

Christian Louboutin shoes with those high heels

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This blog was started to sell my new book & I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuchat Amazon.com

Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend

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Sometimes a Book Really Starts One Thinking

by Beverley
March 6th, 2012

While this title fits me, many people I know read nothing but classics or books destined to be classics or books of tremendous depth of some sort.  When I’m not reading books about China and doing research, I read biographies.  Being very people oriented I devour biographies. But I have to confess something.  I do love mysteries!  From old time Raymond Chandlers and my friend the late Ross McDonald (real name Ken Millar), I’m actually a character in his The Blue Hammer , to something like Bangkok 8 that has possibly the most frightening first page I’ve ever encountered.

But there are times when I see a cover I like or a title I like and I change course.  My latest course change is a small book The Company They Kept, Volume Two edited by Robert Silvers, a New York Review book.  This could in a way fall under “biography” if you stretched the point a bit. It is short stories of writers writing about unforgettable friendships.

When I picked it up and started to read late at night when all by CSI shows were over for the night — I watch them all.  NCSI being at the top of my list.  But CSI LA is close behind because I think LL Cool J is, well really cool.  I even taped The View one day because he was guest for the show.  That was an interesting experience.  I’d never seen it before. Those women really had him squirming with their language and topics of discussion.  But then I like CSI Miami too.  And CSI Las Vegas.  I’ve watched them all so often I  think I could perform an autopsy myself.

Speaking of which a couple of years ago I was flying home from Las Vegas, the friends I was with having driven home.  After going through the whole procedure and putting my clothes back on in the airport security area I was leaning over tying my shoe when a man next to me also doubled over tying his shoes said, “Where are you going?”

“Home to Santa Barbara,” I answered from my doubled over position.  “Where are you going?”  “Uganda,” was the reply.  Well was my curiosity set afire with that.  And my advice-giving mode.  “Have you had all your shots?” I asked.  He replied in the affirmative.  “And do you have lots of good antibiotics with you.  And things for cuts because they have so many germs we’re not used to.”  And again he answered in the affirmative.

Finally we were standing up and he introduced me to his traveling companion.  I fired the same questions at him but my first friend interrupted me saying that his colleague was also well prepared.  They’d made many trips to that part of the world.

“What do you two do?” I asked.  “I’m the coroner for Las Vegas and my colleague is head of the forensic lab.” came the astonishing reply.

When I regained my poise I said, “If you two were Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp I couldn’t be more excited.”  And I spent so much time asking them questions from all my time in the forensic lab on all my TV shows I nearly missed my plane!  Incidentally they spend their vacations in African countries training modern techniques to the local lab technicians etc.

Stephen Spender

Stephen Spender

Oh I do stray!  About the book……….  It was slow reading for me because I spent so much time writing down quotes I particularly liked in chapters such as “Virgil Thomson on Gertrude Stein” or Hector Bianciotti on Jorge Luis Borges one of my favorite South American writers.  Oh yes, I read them too.  But it was Sir Stephen Spender on W. H. Auden where I was really engrossed. Natasha and Stephen Spender came to stay at Chateau Mouton as guest of Baron Philippe de Rothschild several times when I was staying there.  Dinner conversation on those visits sometimes got away from me when they got on to poetry as Stephen was Poet Laureate of Great Britain and Philippe was a French poet of great note. Natasha, quite an intellectual as well, was a concert pianist.  In that crowd I became an excellent listener! Stephen had a fun side as well and some blog I’ll write about him coming to Santa Barbara for a lecture at University of California at Santa Barbara and my over-cooked leg of lamb and sweet German shepherd dog Jacqueline who terrified Stephen.

Baron Philippe de Rothschild conducted all business and wrote his poetry in his bed at Mouton, appearing downstairs for luncheon at 2:30. Morning meetings with his household staff as well as top people at his Chateau Mouton Rothschild winery took place in his bedroom as well. And he had no problems with meeting all this people from a reclining position wearing a white silk night shirt specially made by his tailor in Paris.

His chapter in the book is taken from an address he gave at the Cathedral Church, Oxford, on October 17, 1973 to memory of W. H. Auden.  He spoke of Auden reciting poetry by heart in an almost toneless, unemotional, quite unpoetical voice which submerged the intellectual meaning under the level horizontal line of the words.  “He would hold up a word or phrase like an isolate fragment or specimen chipped off the great granite cliff of language, where a tragic emotion could be compressed into a coldly joking word, as in certain phrases I recall him saying.  For instance, Pain has an element of blank or The icy precepts of respect………….”

Nice words. Good reading.  I really should conquer my addiction to CSIs and do more of it.  Oh I have to stop now.  Downton Abbey comes on in ten minutes.  I’m addicted to that too!

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