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It’s Very Cold in Tokyo and Raining in Taipei

by Beverley
February 4th, 2012

My friend David Patrick Columbia generally starts off his daily report on his super popular New York Social Diary with a sort of weather report. “It’s a gray dreary day today” “Snow today….” Well I’m starting off with it’s been 85 degrees in Santa Barbara, the Flowering Pear tree is in full bloom as is my Flowering Cherry tree.

Natalie’s cherry blossom tree and in the background the redwood tree I bought in a five gallon can in 1974 and planted in that spot. It now towers over a three story building.

The latter is very special to me as the ashes of my beloved standard wirehair dachshund Natalie are buried there. When that tree bursts into glorious bloom with Monarch butterflies and bees fluttering around it and a neighborhood shiny blue hummingbird sipping from the pink blossoms it is Natalie coming back to say hello to me. But there is a very interesting story connected with Natalie being there that will be a whole blog in itself.

Whenever I’m thinking about weather reports the title of this blog today “It’s very cold in Tokyo and raining in Taipei” comes to mind. It goes back to the days when my daughter and I were a traveling team. I started traveling at the age of four with my parents:

My parents and me when I first started traveling

And I started taking her with me at about the same age. Here is our first travel adventure together in Honolulu in 1963.

Beverley & Tracey Jackson. Hawaii 1963.

A certain four year old and I on our first solo travel adventure Hawaii 1963

This picture reminds me of something she said when years later we landed in Bucharest after a flight of over 48 hours during the Cold War and our plane carrying just a very few of us, and needless to say she and I were the only Americans crazy enough to be going there at that time, was met by soldiers with bayonets and rifles pointed at us: “This certainly isn’t the way we’re greeted when we get off the plane in Oahu! They meet us there with floral leis!”

Well there I go getting off the subject again. Checking out weather reports. The first time we were going to Asia I read the weather reports and told her, “It’s very cold in Tokyo and raining in Taipei.” When she repeated it, emphasizing each word, it became a sort of chant and from then on whenever weather came up with it came the chant “It’s very cold in Tokyo and raining in Taipei.” And frequently when I go off to those areas now it still holds true. Try saying it in sort of sing song way and you’ll see what I mean.

And this all leads me to something I read in the New York Times today while lunching poolside at the Coral Casino Beach Club enjoying our beautiful weather. It was an article by Sharon LaFraniere titled Activists Crack China’s Wall of Denial About Air Pollution. My first thought was it’s about time!! When I first went to China in 1975 there wasn’t really a pollution problem. But within a few years I found that Peking I’d known with beautiful blue skies was now Beijing with smog that reminded me of Los Angeles when I was younger. However I never realized how really serious the problem was until a trip my friend Tamara Usher Kinsell and I took in October 2002. It was just after Zhang Yimou’s marvelous film Raise the Red Lantern had come out and I wanted to go see the mansion with the incredible roofs in that film. I researched and found out you had to go to Shanxi Province and stay in the city of Taiyuan and go out from there. Taiyaun proved to be a very large city in the middle of the major coal mining area of China and about the only person we found at the time who spoke any English was one phone operator in our Shanxi Grand Hotel. Tamara’s fluency in French, Italian, Russian and I don’t know what else was no help since she lacks Chinese and so do I. But somehow we got along with our language books and lots of pantomime.

Here is a scene from the movie “Raise the Red Lantern” that shows the amazing roofs.

I was so excited as we drove off for several hours into the countryside to see that glorious Qiao mansion, those incredible sweeping roofs. My first clue something wasn’t according to my plan was gigantic balloons flying high and an avenue of vendors selling tee shirts etc leading up to the the mansion as our car approached. We braved the mob scene and toured some the very grand house that was almost empty except for some imitations of fine old Chinese furniture. The Qiao mansion has 313 rooms, six major courtyards and 19 minor ones. And everything was jammed with Chinese tourists. But most importantly you couldn’t see those glorious rolling gray tile roofs I’d come all that way to see. You just couldn’t get an angle. I was pouting all the way back to Taiyuan and finally Tamara said, “Didn’t you realize that to get those angles they had to have cameras on cranes or take them from the air?” No I hadn’t realized. But with her son Kinka Usher a leading producer of commercials in Hollywood (the kind we’ll be seeing at the Super Bowl — the big league ones) Tamara had figured it out. Just wish she’d figured it out before we dragged thousands of miles to Taiyuan. Although one day we went to the ancient village of Pingyao, now a UNESCO World Heritage site, I’d wanted to see. Pingyao was once a town of rich merchants and financial center. Amazingly the magnificent city walls built in 1370 still survive as do their towers and the city gates. And we visited other incredible mansions in the general area, driving out each day in a different direction. It turned out that very successful pirates had gone from this remote area to the coast, made/stolen their fortunes and come home ultimately to their ancestral villages and built these gigantic compounds to prove their success.

Little boy in Pingyao

Little boy in Pingyao

Pingyao street scene

Pingyao street scene

A street scene in Pingyao

Well now to my point of this whole blog. It wasn’t until our departure plane flew out of Taiyuan that I realized we had been in a valley the entire time, surrounded by tall mountains. The smog had been so thick we never saw the mountains until we flew over them! Yes the New York Times article is right. The smog situation in China definitely needs some attention!

As a postcript, after going all that way for the first time in my photographing lifetime ALL except three of my photos from this journey got lost!

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book and I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuch at Amazon.com
Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend
Categories My Life
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What Do You Give Your Ex-Husband For His Birthday?

by Beverley
October 6th, 2011

What do you give your ex-husband for his birthday after you’ve been estranged for nearly 47 years? “Tis a puzzlement” to quote a movie King of Siam. I found the answer in my own wine cellar.

This blog is about pleasant things, interesting places, people past and present, as well as items of interest from the media and everyday life. I’ve been writing it casually as I did the original By The Way newspaper column I wrote for 22 years. Then recently my wonderful tech helper and friend Kathleen Fetner in San Francisco sent me charts showing my blog is being read in almost every country in the world. I’m still in a shocked state of amazement. Why my blog even got hacked by professionals in Pakistan last week. Just like the Pentagon! I’d questioned her about emails I’d received from followers in Rumania, Japan and Denmark. “How did they find me when they don’t know me?” I asked Kathleen. “Well you caught on in Rumania when some avid Barbara Cartland reader Googled her and your blog on her came up and she must have spread the word to the Barbara Cartland readers in Rumania. Then your blog on Florence Chadwick swimming the Catalina Channel was picked up worldwide as people were Googling about Diane Nyad‘s Cuba-Miami swim attempt. And people liked what they read and started following.” Amazing! So now I’ve had to analyze more carefully what I write. One thing is definite, since I firmly believe decent people keep their private lives private there will never be dirty laundry aired here.

However, I am now going to tell you a bit of personal history because it’s an All’s Well That Ends Well story that might encourage other divorced couples in coping pleasantly with their situations in their later years.

Bob Jackson, Beverley Jackson, Carol Jackson, Leslie Jones, Linda Jackson

Left to right having dinner at Lucky’s. Bob Jackson on his 84th birthday, Beverley, Carol Jackson, Leslie Jones and Linda Jackson

My marriage ended after eight years. Bob Jackson my ex went on to be happily married to Carol Jackson for 47 years so far. We basically had no friendly contact all those years. I decided after the divorce I was an only child who liked to live life her way. I wasn’t really meant to be married. I raised my young daughter alone making her my primary interest in life in her young years. We roamed the world together having a fabulous time. Through my hotelier friendships we stayed in elegant suites in the world’s greatest hotels. Through my devoted friends worldwide we stayed in wonderful country houses and palaces as well. There were of course nights spent on wooden benches in cold remote little airports around the world due to plane delays. In the worst predicaments, in places like Rumania during the Cold War or no bathrooms on 10 hour drive from Jaipur to Udaipur, my daughter could always make me laugh.

I long ago heeded Auntie Mame‘s advice to Agnes, “Live! Life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death!” Yes as my 83rd birthday approaches I can say I’ve truly feasted at life’s table!!

And so now in 2011 the three of us, Carol, Bob and I, are having a fun comfortable time together in our last years. We’ve gone far beyond the bad things and eliminated trouble makers from our lives. They are there for me and I’m there for them. Their being there for me includes the luxury of fresh eggs from their chickens, just picked vegetables from their garden, fabulous white goat milk butter they keep me supplied with.

I can’t contribute such culinary luxuries to our friendship but I can supply unusual entertainment. Prince William and the Duchess of Cambridge came to Santa Barbara for a charity polo benefit. Being quite involved with the Santa Barbara Polo Club I had advance notice and obtained impossible to get tickets for the Jacksons. Unfortunately my nontransferable ticket went to waste as I developed a last minute health problem and missed the big event. But they gave me a full report.

I’d so wanted to see Prince William and his bride as his mother Princess Diana and I were friends in my London days, working together for our close mutual friends the late Duke of Norfolk’s Help the Aged and the now Dowager Duchess of Norfolk’s Hospices. But that will come up in a future blog when I tell you about the first time I met the young bride Princess Diana. It was the night Prince Charles kindly invited me to dine with them at Kensington Palace as a thank you for my help in raising the funds for his project of building a small opera house in the Royal College of Music.

Now more about that bottle of wine I took to Bob’s birthday dinner party, along with a book of Irving Penn photographs, it was quite a good wine from the great vineyards of my very special friend of many years the late Baron Philippe de Rothschild‘s Chateau Mouton. Vintage 1981 for you former fellow Oenophiles in the San Francisco Commandarie de Bordeaux. How was it? It drank well, good nose, fruits still strong but it is meant to be drunk now and not held much longer. By the way I miss you all. Not sure I ever explained why I disappeared. But when Clem Whitaker died and United Air started charging $750 for the less than 400 mile flight and hotel rates soared I did the math and decided as much as I loved our meetings and dinners and the honor of being one of the only female members of the San Francisco Chapter of Commandarie de Bordeaux, it was time to resign. The math showed me how many Meals on Wheels I could supply and how many AIDS orphans in Rwanda I could feed by resigning.

So the advice I offer in this blog today is, in your 70’s or 80’s you might try to establish a comfortable “chicken soup when you’re sick” relationship with your ex spouses. It can prove very pleasant. It has for me.

Baron Philippe de Rothschild

Baron Philippe de Rothschild and his cellar master and friend of a lifetime Raoul Blondin, who is carrying wines he is about to decant for our dinner, talking in front of Grande Mouton.

Baron Philippe de Rothschild and me at a party in Montecito 1978

Baron Philippe de Rothschild and me at a party in Montecito 1978

By The Way
This blog was started to sell my new book and I keep going off on other topics. Please do check out The Beautiful Lady Was A Palace Eunuch at Amazon.com
Acknowledgement:
Kathleen Fetner, Technical Advisor and Friend
Categories My Life
Comments (2)

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